How do I support my loved one as life draws to a close?
A series of thoughts (1)
Attributes Rated as Important (by Patient Preference)
for persons nearing end of life
- Be kept clean
- To name a decision maker
- Have a nurse with whom one feels comfortable
- Know what to expect about one’s physical condition
- Have someone who will listen
- Maintain one’s dignity
- Trust one’s physician
- Have financial affairs in order
- Be free of pain
- Maintain a sense of humor
- Say good-bye to important people
- Be free of shortness of breath
- Be free of anxiety
- Have physician with whom one can discuss fears
- Have physician who knows one as a whole person
- Resolve unfinished business with family or friends
- Have physical touch
- Know that one’s physician is comfortable talking about death and dying
- Share time with close friends
- Believe family is prepared for one’s death
- Feel prepared to die
- Presence of family
- Treatment preferences in writing
- Not die alone
- Remember personal accomplishments
- Receive care from person physician
From the Hospice of the Florida Suncoast
Further “Thoughts” upcoming from the TLC team